I finally made the family recipe without checking the instructions every thirty seconds. It actually tasted right.
Appearing as public alias · just for fun · a little while ago
A COMMUNITY FOR ADOPTEES
In Between is a growing community for adoptees of every background, culture, and life stage—a place to learn, connect, and feel less alone.
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The everyday updates. The questions you don’t know where else to ask. The stories you share when you’re ready.
Appearing as public alias · just for fun · a little while ago
I finally made the family recipe without checking the instructions every thirty seconds. It actually tasted right.
Appearing as anonymous publicly · family · a little while ago
Does anyone else avoid adoption follow-up questions even when people mean well?
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I thought learning more would make me feel certain. Instead, it gave me better words for questions I was already carrying.
Anonymous to the community—not to moderation.
Built with care for adoptees across backgrounds, cultures, and life stages.
About In BetweenThe stories matter. So do the smaller moments: finding someone in a similar season, joining a low-pressure circle, or realizing there are people nearby who understand without needing the whole explanation.
Opt in when the context feels useful. Leave whenever you need to.
Midwest · open to online friendship
film photography · food · figuring out identityPacific Northwest · creative people
writing · cooking · new placesOnline — Sunday slow chatEasy conversation, cameras optional
OnlineChicago — coffee + bookstore afternoonBroad neighborhood shared after joining
MidwestSeattle — first-time meetupSmall group, gentle start
Pacific NW⌖ Location details shared only after joining.
FROM THE STORY DESKLearning the language didn’t make everything click.Sometimes the first step is simply letting a question stay open.
Adoptee-led and centered on lived adoption experience. Friends, family, and allies may learn with humility; adoptee-only spaces remain protected.
A future member-only map for broad, consent-based connection opportunities—not public storytelling or individual location sharing.
The map begins with broad community patterns. Members may later choose to share a low-detail, consent-based connection profile.
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Illustrative preview data — all people and locations shown are fictional examples.
Locations are grouped before they reach the public map. Small groups roll into broader regions; real members must separately consent before appearing or receiving a request. No public individual location sharing is planned.
In Between will eventually make room for adoptee voices across backgrounds, shared with clear permission. There is space for stories about identity, culture, family, friendship, ambition, everyday life—and the things people may still be finding words for.
No one owes this community their story. But if you want to share, there is room for it here.
“I didn’t realize how many tiny things I explained away until I met other adoptees.”
“I want people to know we can talk about identity and also just laugh about our families.”
“I’m looking for people nearby who understand without needing a whole introduction.”
In Between is a growing community for adoptees of every background, culture, and life stage—a place to learn, connect, share what feels true, and feel a little less alone.
I’m building it because adoption can hold many different stories. Mine is still unfolding too.
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